Author Archives: Howard Scott Warshaw

New Tech, Old Fear

“The young people of  today think of nothing but themselves. They have no reverence for parents or old age. They talk as if they knew everything, and what passes for wisdom with us is foolishness with them. As for the … Continue reading

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Quote: Failure’s Value

“Failure is not an end, it’s a launching point.”  -HSW How do I know? I created one of the epic failures of our time. Here’s what I learned: Failures are stepping stones to success… but only if we learn from … Continue reading

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FQP: What is it?

Here is another Fundamental Question of Personality: It is what it is OR it isn’t what it should be? Which way do you sway when something you’d prefer wasn’t is? It-is-what-it-is types lean more toward acceptance, seeking attunement with their … Continue reading

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The Latest Addiction

There is a lot of press lately on Social Media addiction and the evil this engenders. This is typical of news coverage today. Blame the symptom instead of the cause. They cite the number of addicts but never the number … Continue reading

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Unique Like Me

We are all pretty clear on the fact that everyone is unique. We are all different in some way or another. We like different styles and surroundings. Our taste in movies and books varies a great deal. And of course … Continue reading

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I Couldn’t Have Said It Better

People frequently tell me “That’s exactly what I mean,” and “I couldn’t say it as well as you did.” I’m not sure that’s accurate. The truth is: You are saying it. Loudly and clearly! That’s why I can hear it … Continue reading

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FQP: Can People Change?

Do you believe people can change? Can people actually become different in their beliefs and inclinations? This is a Fundamental Question of Personality. Some believe that somewhere between the ages of 5 and 10 we lock in a personality and … Continue reading

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The Storm & The Desert

At times I find it interesting to view anxiety as a storm and depression as a desert. This clarifies goals. With anxiety I want to calm the storm. With depression I want to find the oasis. In the storm, the … Continue reading

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Visualization: Sublime or Ridiculous

Some people give Visualization a bad wrap. They say the idea of achieving something by merely picturing it is childish fantasy. Wishful thinking not based in reality. And if that’s all there was to visualization, they’d be right. But that’s … Continue reading

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A Few Words on Non-Verbal Communication

We teach others how to treat us by the way we treat ourselves. Talk is cheap! Showing is more powerful than telling. The old adage “do as I say, not as I do” is absurd. You might as well say … Continue reading

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