Category Archives: Relationships

Fighting Over Small Things

A lot of couples come to therapy citing a series of squabbles over petty issues. Here’s the first thing I tell them: There are no fights over small things. All fights are about big things. We blame them on small … Continue reading

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Cupid’s Ongoing Challenge

The people we love do things that change us. Our vulnerability gives them this power. When I open my feelings to you in a loving relationship, things you do effect me. When the effect is profound, I change. Similarly, some … Continue reading

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